Monday, 18 April 2011
Malaysian Teachers = Jack of All Trades
Wednesday, 13 April 2011
Be My Own Boss!
Wednesday, 23 February 2011
For you, my son.
My Carrot Cake

I am obses with this super flexible fruit/veggie. It is flexible because it can be made into different types of food: juice, main dish (buat sayur tumis, makan ngan nasi) and dessert.
- Beat oil, sugar, eggs, essence, cinnamon, zest and juice until light and fluffy.
- Add in other ingredients and mix well.
- Bake in oven preheated oven for 45 mins - 1 hour. Check your cake with a cake tester. The cake is cooked if the tester comes out clean.
Tuesday, 21 December 2010
The Ice Cream Tragedy
Friday, 17 December 2010
Mohd Raihan
Wednesday, 22 September 2010
Think before you choose
Friday, 30 April 2010
Women's Power
2. Dalam masa yang sama menjaga keperluan anak, si ibu masih mempunyai masa untuk mengemas bilik tidur dan menggosok pakaian suami dan diri sendiri. Begitu juga dengan membasuh, menyidai serta melipat pakaian.
3. Malam-malam tidur si ibu tidak pernah lena kerana perlu bangun untuk menyusukan anak. Si ayah? Tidur enak dibuai mimpi sambil berdengkur.
4. Sebelum keluar rumah untuk bekerja, si isteri mampu menyediakan keperluaan anak untuk dihantar ke rumah pengasuh. Si ibu sempat memandikan anak di samping menyelesaikan pelbagai kerja rumah yang lain.
5.Walaupun banyak perkara yang perlu diuruskan, si wanita ini tahu segala selok belok rumah. Contohnya, dia tahu di mana hendak mencari sesuatu barang, tak perlu tanya suami, "Bang, baju tido anak kt mana?".Well, it is because she is the organiser of the house!
Oleh itu, para suami di luar sana, ringan-ringankan lah tulang bantu si isteri. Berikanlah penghargaan atas segala pengorbanan dan penat lelah isteri. Ingat, bukan anda seorang yang bekerja mencari rezeki! Dengan adanya isteri yang bekerja, kurang beban kewangan anda. For me, dalam menguruskan hal rumahtangga, si suami yang patut lebih penat sebab anda ketua, so ketua memang kene buat lebih!
Hebat bukan, insan yang bergelar isteri & ibu pada masa yang sama?
Saya bukan puji diri sendiri, tapi selepas mengalami sendiri pengalaman ini, saya amat menyanjungi ibu saya sendiri dan para ibu yang bekerja tanpa ada bibik di rumah.
WELL DONE to us!!!
Tuesday, 24 November 2009
The journey of a magical experience
The Pregnancy
Both husband and I plan to have a baby. But not this soon as we thought that I will only conceive a few months after stop taking my pills. But His plans are better. Alhamdulillah, my pregnancy was a very smooth one. But not that easy as I was quite tensed up by pressure from BPG (thanks to her for all the mess). Nasib baik dpt gak graduate.
Although the pregnancy was uneventful, I gained so much weight even though I didn't a lot. Mengidam..takde sangat, tapi selera berubah-ubah. Kejap nak makan tu, kejap nak makan ni. Yang tak berubah cuma fav drink: Sunkist Orange Juice. Hopefully, I will get my pre-pregnancy weight and shape back ;p
The Labour
Pagi sehari sebelum kelahiran Mohd Raihan, I had a weird dream and suddenly I felt a kicking from inside my womb. I was shocked, awaked from my sleep and quickly stood up. And there was a trickle of water coming out. Tak panik pun sebab tak rasa sakit. Confuse ada la; is it really coming? So I call my husband yang tgh ada important meeting, and he said: 'Nak abang balik ke?' Haha. Funny.
We went to the doctor and she said I had a leaking and labour is still far away, it will be tomorrow. So we went to One Utama to buy our cats' food and had tea at Old Town, then we off to the birthing centre.
That night, contractions coming in slow and steady at first, then fast and furious. I couldn't sleep at all. Bengang je dgr my hubby berdengkur sedangkan I ni menahan sakit macam nak berguling-guling. Nak tunggu pukul 4 pagi sementara doktor dtg utk bagi pain killer rasa macam bertahun-tahun. Dah bagi pain killer pun still sakit and x leh tido. Lapar tapi whatever goes in, went out. Sepanjang mengandung tak pernah muntah, ni la baru pertama kali...
Finally, my OBG doc came in and said I am going to the labour room. Can't wait for the pain to be over. Dah masuk labour room tu, doc heran apsal air ketuban x pecah2, so she did it for me. X sakit pun tapi rasa pelik air tu keluar. Haha. Then, she injected oxytoxin in my drip. After that, the contractions were really strong and painful. Allah je tahu macam mana sakit nye. Tak pernah rasa sakit sampai macam tu skali. Macam sakit maha senggugut! The doc said it will be 4 to 6 hours before the baby arrive, and I couldn't imagine how I am going to survive with the pain.
Thank God it wasn't that long. After 1 hour or so, I had the urge to push. So, I pushed and pushed with any energy that was left inside of me, and then finally, I heard the nurse said: 'Dah nampak kepala baby, cepat panggil Doktor Ummul!'. Pastu, lg la semngat I push, then Mohd Raihan pun kuar.....sume sakit pun hilang..............
Being pregnant and giving birth is really an experience so special that Allah swt granted to women only. Walaupun susah dan sakit, penghujungnya amat best skali. Now only I truly understand why Allah swt says we have to put our mothers first before our father.
Friday, 5 June 2009
The ups, downs and swings of the pregnancy
Some people ask me whether I have extraordinary 'mengidam' or not. Well, I don't really have one (or more). But here are 3 things that I want to share with you:
1. I crave for various food. Sometimes, I like to eat Gardenia Butterscotch bread. The next day, I want to throw up from just looking at the same bread. And today, I really really want to have McD chocolate sundae. I notice that I like spicy food and sweet desserts nowadays. Tom yam, masak lemak cili padi, asam pedas, ice-cream, cheese cake, frosted cake, chocolates.....
Mesti nnt the baby pun same. Haha.
2. Sometimes, I have mood swings. I just feel like crying for unknown reasons. I hate this when it happens as usually I am alone at that time. The swings know the right timing to hit me hard.
3. I can't wait for my belly to get bigger. Membuyung bak kata some of my friends. Must be really exciting to see me become so large like a living, land, walking whale.
Got to go now. See you again soon! **
Wednesday, 29 April 2009
Entering a New Phase
Thinking about how I got to learn the fact that I am pregnant, it is quite interesting. I could feel that I am conceiving although the 3 pregnancy test I took told me otherwise. And I keep insisting my hubby to buy me pregnant moms' milk even though the tests were negative. Finally, one day, my hubby listened to me. We bought a pack of Mamil Gold milk, as well as another pack of pregnancy test.
I was very 'ciwi'. Couldn't wait for a few days before taking the test. So, before we went to sleep that night, I quietly took the test, alone, without my hubby knowing. And, voila! The other line showed up, although not very clear. It wasn't clear, but it was there. I was trembling, not knowing how should I react to the result, so I shouted, calling my hubby who was watching telly at that time. He was so happy that he almost cried.
So the next day, we went to see a doctor. A saiko doctor. He could not believe that I am pregnant as I just stopped taking the pills for less than a month. But, hey, 'kun fa yakun'! Boleh pulak doc tu tnye, "Ni kalau betul jadi, u nak simpan ke?' I was shocked, but I answered 'Yes, of course'. Heee....benci btul ngn doc tu. Bukannye nak ckp tahniah, tnye soklan gila pulak. We are not going to that clinic ever again!
I know some of my friends are worried about how I will go through my practicum in my pregnant state. I am very positive that I will be okay. Pray for our well-being, ok? But still, I am a normal human being, not a super human. Maybe at times I will feel very dead tired, hopefully you guys can support me at those times :)
Thursday, 26 March 2009
Quick Update
1. I think I have slightly gained weight. Maybe because of blissful happiness. Tipu la kalau I kata I tak kisah, kisah jugak sikit2, sampai kena tegur dgn my hubby because I always complain that I am now fat and he doesn't think that way. Anyway, what is more important is that I lead a healthy eating habit: No junk food! (but I cannot resist sweet temptations..cakes..ice-cream...yummmmy.... ;p)
2. I now have a baby. A cute, michivieous and naughty fluffy Persian kitten, named Marsha. No photo of her yet. I am still trying to find my leisure time to do all the uploading of the photos.
3. I hate the current Malaysian education system! There are still lots of conservative educators who still believe their way of teaching is the right one. Unable to open up their old minds to accept changes. Wait till I become one of the think-tankers...
4. My beloved husband and I now have our own sweet little home (thanks to my parents-in-law). It is small and simple, but it is our heaven. Bak kate seorang ustaz, kalau nak syurga di akhirat, ia bermula dengan syurga di dunia (i.e. kedamaian & keharmonian rumahtangga).
5. I still have the rights to moan about my life now. I know I made the choice to get married early, but I am still a human being. Ciptaan Allah s.w.t. yang kerdil & lemah. Those who said: "Tu la, sape suruh kawen awal". You guys just wait for your time. All I need from you guys is your support, not that kind of reply which sometimes, hurt me :(
6. I now will treat myself by going to the hair salon on a regular basis. Thanks to Hani, whom according to my hubby, : "hei..bahaya betul kawan ngan Hani ni, ajar sayang buat benda2 yg mahal!" (p/s Hani: Abul gurau je, eheh ;p)
7. For this month (March 2009), my hubby and I have spent a total of RM 10 000 ++. However, it is because of a useful invesment: buying furnitures and other essential things for our new home. However, it still doesn't change the reality that I am now quite broke!
Haha =D (p/s Suhaimi: sorry for the kaya. It will come, but later sketla ye...).
8. Marriage life is super-duper fantastic.
That's all for now. More coming later (but I don't know when. Biasalah, hidup busy skrg nih)
Friday, 23 January 2009
New Life
I am sure, many will ask me, 'How your new/ married life? or Apa rasa dah kahwin?'. Honestly, I don't know how to explain it. But, of course, I am happy. Truly happy and contented. If we think we are happy that we have a girl/boy friend or fiance, that happiness can't be compared with the happiness that a marriage gives us. To have your loved one besides you every day, to see his face and to hear his voice .... it's very blissful. Betapa indah dan sucinya cinta yang Tuhan ciptakan khas untuk suami isteri. Jadi, siapa2 nak bahagia camni, kahwin la cepat2, eheh ;p
Tapi, kahwin bukanlah semata-mata hendak menghalalkan percintaan yang terlarang je. It goes far beyond that. Bagi yang mentua dah sayang, alhamdulillah lah..tapi bagi yang belum, it is a challange for you, Kahwin bukan kahwin dengan si dia je, tapi dengan semua ahli keluarga si dia jugak. As for me, kahwin dengan si dia yang ada big family, memang satu cabaran, tambahan pulak tinggal sebumbung dengan ipar :)
With marriage also, comes a big responsibility. Bukan memadu cinta asmara je. Soal komitmen sudah pasti. Bagi isteri, keperluan suami mesti diutamakan. And for the husband, jangan abaikan kebajikan & keperluan isteri. Both partners have to be sensitive and tolerant. Hehe..cakap pandai je... but I am still learning. Yelah, baru nak masuk sebulan... x pakar pun lagi.. ;p
Dulu, sebelum kahwin, pukul 9 malam masih awal. Tapi sekarang...'Hah, dah pukul 9!'. Bujang dulu, hidup rilex je...rasa lapar, makan, kalau malas masak, buat yang cincai je. Sekarang, tak leh la nak buat camtu. Baju dulu pun, liat nak iron. And now, ironing is like my new hobby. TV pun dah x sempat nak tengok. Ape dah jadi dgn Prison Break, Grey's Anatomy & Desperate Housewives pun tak tau...xde masa nak tengok. Hu....
But all that can't beat the smile of my husband when he comes home from work :))
From my experience, marriage is not that hard. For Muslims, the simple akad is what we need. But as now, most of us have been affected by globalization and materialism, the simple thing becomes an almost imppossible mission. Some may think that I got married at a very young age, but the determination is what matters most. Although I still have another year to go, it does not mean that I can't manage my life better. Ape pun yang terjadi, I believe it happens for the best.
Wednesday, 26 November 2008
Wedding Nerves
But now that the wedding is more or less four more weeks to go, I am actually NERVOUS!
I even get jumpy when I am not doing anything.
I even get jumpier when I actually do something.
Gosh, why am I nervous????
Monday, 17 November 2008
Tagged
What is the relationship of you and him?
My husband.. in the next 37 days, insya Allah :))
Your 5 impressions towards him
1. Caring
2. Responsible
3. Loving
4. Strict
5. Clingy!
The most memorable things he had done for you are
Uncountable.
The most memorable things he have said to you?
I like to keep this private.
If he becomes your enemy, you will
do nothing, coz this is not going to happen.
If he becomes your enemy, the reason is
I betray him, but very unlikely so.
The most desirable thing to do on him is?
Too mushy to describe. I will keep this to myself.
The overall impression of him is
My life, my everything.
How do you think the people around you will feel about you?
I am serious.
The character of you for yourself is?
Matured thinking, at least this is what I think of myself.
The character you hate of yourself is?
I love the way I am. Nothing to hate. No body is perfect anyway.
The most ideal person that you want to be is?
Myself, with better, improved personalities.
For the people who care about and like you, say something about them.
I love you, and I will do as long as you do the same too.
* I've deleted the last few parts because its quite tiring to think of 10 people to tag.
Friday, 14 November 2008
More of Maria
Tuesday, 4 November 2008
Chocolate Fudge Cake! Yummy!!
(note: picture might not give the right justice to the cake's look & taste)
And now that the DC disorders hits me again, I am going to bake this again.
Let me know if you want some ;p
Wednesday, 29 October 2008
A Boost for Motivation
Friday, 24 October 2008
My Want List
Here I want to share with you my want list of things that I want to have before I am back to Malaysia. I know I am broke now, so by writing this the feeling of brokeness lessen up and the want to browse Amazon or ebay or argos will diminish....
- Prestige pressure cooker
- Multifunction blender
- Kenwood food processor
- George Foreman health grill
- Make up set (for my hantaran)
- Books (education, story and cooking)
Well, that's all. Not a long list anyway.
P/s: Wedding present for me, anyone? I am still waiting for those in bold to be given to me.
Just kidding =D
Friday, 17 October 2008
My Mum's New Obsession
So, here is the gorgeous & mischievous little thing...
